Chinese morning markets

Blog #24

3-31-19

On our last trip to Leiyang, I enjoyed going out of my mother in law’s house in the morning and picking up breakfast. It is very active in the morning on the streets. There are many different shops and vendors just outside her complex along the road.

我们上次去耒阳的时候,我喜欢早上从我的岳母家出门去买早饭。早上街上有很多活动和 人。一出门就有很多不同的小卖店和摊子。

There is a colorful vegetable market there where you can pick up fresh vegetables. I saw all sorts of things and have no idea what they are. Sometimes, my wife and mother-in-law also don’t know what these are and have to ask. Variety is the one constant in Chinese cuisine.

这个地方有一个很热闹的市场,有各种颜色的菜。你每天可以买到很新鲜的菜。我看了很 多菜但是不知道它们是什么。有时我的太太或者我岳母也不知道是什么菜,需要问卖菜的 人。各种各样的品种是中国菜的唯一常数。

I enjoy to see all the varieties of vegetables and also the traditional measurement scales used to weight out your purchases. Chinese don’t use metric or English units but have their own Chinese market units to measure weights. For example 1 jin equals to 500 g. You can read more about all of the Chinese measurements units here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_units_of_measurement

我最喜欢看很多不同的菜,还可以看到传统的测量尺度。中国人不用公制或者英制,他们 有自己的测量单位。例如,一斤等于500克。

You can even pickup freshly butchered meat – pork from this person:

你可以买很新鲜的肉,比如看这个人:

You can pickup everything for a day’s meal here for a few dollars all fresh from the farm.

就花两三美元,你可以买到一天的午饭晚饭材料。

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A Shared Dream

Blog #23 – A shared dream

3-17-19

We were traveling in China around Thanksgiving last year. We tried a new travel method to fly to Toronto early in the morning, hang out in the airport for a while, and then fly direct to Shanghai. In Shanghai, we got a hotel to stay one night in a real bed, then woke up to have a nice breakfast, and took  “gao tie” (China’s amazing high speed train system) down to Leiyang.

我们去年感恩节去了中国。这次我们用了一个新的旅游路线,我们一大早在Toronto转机,在Toronto机场等了几个小时,然后去上海。我们在上海订了一个酒店,睡了一个晚上。第二天醒来以后吃早饭,然后坐高铁到耒阳市。

When we were sleeping in Shanghai, something quite interesting happened. We were sleeping with one kid and one parent per bed in our hotel room. In the middle of the night, I was awakened by our seven year old, who started speaking in his sleep rapid-fire Chinese.

在上海酒店睡觉的时候,有一个很有意思的情况。我和儿子睡一张床,妻子和女儿睡一张床。晚上,我被儿子惊醒了,他在睡梦中用中文很快地说了很多很多事情。

I don’t recall what he was saying, but at the end, he asked “do you remember that???” And then our five year old in the next bed sat bolt upright, and emphatically said “yes, I remember!!!”

Neither of them was awake and didn’t speak a word after that.  Just peacefully sleeping.

我不知道他说什么,但他最终说:“你记得吗? ? ?”

然后在不同的床上,我们女儿突然坐起来,很清楚地说:“是!我记得!!!”

两个孩子都在睡梦中,没有醒来。他们然后没有说任何其它的话。他们睡得很安静。

Were they in the same dream? Whose dream was it? How do brother and sister cross into each other’s dreams? How interesting!

他们在做一样的梦吗?

这是谁的梦?

哥哥和妹妹会不会穿越另外一个人的梦 ?

很有意思!

Ginger treatment

Blog #22 – Ginger shampoo

3-10-19

One of my trips to China, I once again had a head cold. My wife’s family is very fantastic and always want to help us out.

有一次,我去中国的时候感冒了。我妻子的家人都非常好,总是想帮助我们。

One idea was to get a ginger head treatment to open my sinuses. I thought it sounded good and so off we went to the hair salon.

一个人有一个想法。有一个人说我应该去用姜洗头发可以打开我的鼻窦。我觉得听起来挺好,所以我们去了美发沙龙。

We went to the hair salon. I laid down and the hairdresser brings over about three large knotty bunches of fresh ginger for me to see and inspect. I gave her a nod OK, and she then brought out a food processor and put ALL of that ginger in there along with a few other minor ingredients. Now, I already knew the taste of ginger, but I was about to learn how truly spicy pure ginger is.

我们去了一个美发沙龙。我躺到洗发台上。一个美发师拿来了两三块大的生姜给我看,我点了点头表示可以。然后她拿出来了一个食品加工机,把生姜和一些其他的东西放在里面打开。虽然我已经知道生姜的味道,但是我正要发现生姜真得很辣。

She washed my hair with water, and then begin to apply the ginger purée with a spatula onto my head. At first it tingled. Very quickly it got hot. She was not done applying that blender full of ginger. By the time she was done, the top of my head was encased in ginger paste. Then she left me to marinate.

她开始用水洗我的头发没有问题。然后她开始放姜酱在我的头上。刚开始我只是感觉有点刺辣 马上变得非常非常辣。但这只是一小部分,等她把所有的姜酱都放到我头上以后, 我的头顶盖上了一层厚厚的姜酱。然后她离开我腌制。

It felt like my head was inside a blazing oven.  Very strange experience. The feeling of heat was almost unbearable. I thought about my high school job at a pizza place, and thought of sticking my head in that big pizza oven.

我的头像在一个非常热烤箱里面。很奇怪的感觉。热得几乎无法忍受。我想起了我在高中时曾在一个意大利饭店做披萨,我当时的感觉我的头就在披萨烤箱里面。

The service person returned, and rinsed the ginger out of my hair and off my head. Instantly the heat was gone. What a strange experience. Unfortunately, the cold was still there.

服务员回来了,冲了我的头。马上热的感觉没有了。很奇怪。不幸的是,我的感冒还在。

The “standard treatment”

Blog #21 – the standard treatment

3-1-19

I was in China a few years back in my wife’s hometown. At that time I could speak probably at the HSK 2 level of Chinese, which is to say, not much.

几年前我在太太的老家度假。那时我就会说一点的中文,大概是HSK2水平,没有很高。

I was sick and so my wife and her “sisters” and their husbands decided we could all go to the spa together so I could use the steam room. I was not really interested in spa, but steam room sounded great for my head cold.

我感冒了,所以我的太太和她的姐妹和她们的老公决定我们都去一个spa. 我太太告诉我在SPA有一个桑拿室。桑拿室听起来很舒服,所以我决定陪她们去。

That evening we all showed up at the spa, or rather my wife, two sisters and me showed up at the spa. Their husbands were not able to join, but no problem, I told them I would be just fine by myself and said just give me “pu tong de” the standard treatment. As long as it includes steam room. The girls went off to their side and I went into the men’s side by myself.

那个晚上,我和我的太太到了SPA的门口,我发现了姐妹们的老公不能参加。我告诉她们“没关系!没有问题! 我就要一个’普通的’男士的服务项目。“我想我只要有桑拿室就可以了。然后,我的太太和她的姐妹去了女人的一边,我一个人去了男人的一边。

There was a minder with me. I put everything into a locker. He tells me, first take a shower.  I take a shower and then return and asked “now what?”. He says “go here” and walks me to an area with a sign that looks like massage. It has a table and a bucket under a water faucet with a dirty mop in it. He points to a massage table. I ask him “is this the standard treatment?” He answered yes, so I lie down.

里面有一个服务员。他告诉我:“先洗澡。”我洗澡以后,问他.:“现在做什么?“ 服务员送我去了一个地方。 这个地方有一个牌子看起来像按摩。我问他“这是普通的吗?“ 他说:“是。“然后他指向一张按摩床。按摩床边有一个水龙头 和一个水桶。 水桶里有一个脏的拖把。服务员指向这张按摩床。我问了他“这是普通的吗?“

他说“是的。”我于是躺下了。

A minute later, another guy comes out and starts throwing water on my back and rubbing some object. Every time he throws water on my back I am thinking about that dirty mop water. I ask “is that clean water?”

He says “yes”.

过了一分钟,来了另外一个人。 他开始在我的背上扔水。他还在我背上擦了一个东西。每一次他在我背上扔水,我就想起那个脏拖把水。“这个水干不干净?“我问他。

“干净“他说。

Then I notice this stuff flying off from my back. It looks like tiny pieces of dirty mop. I asked him again “is that clean water?” And again he answered “yes, very clean.” – so I picked up a small piece of junk from the table – I said “then what is this??”

He said “that is your skin!”

“My skin??”

“Yes”

“Is this the standard treatment?” I asked. “Yes, very standard” was the answer.

然后,我发现一些小东西从我的背上飞下来,看起来像小的脏拖把片。我再问他:“水真的干净吗?

他再说“很干净。“

所以我拿起一个小拖把片给他看, 问到:“那这是什么???“

他马上说:“这是你的皮肤。“

“我的皮肤??“

“是的。“

“这是普通的吗?? ?“ 我问。

“很普通的。“他回答。

So, he continued to apply 100 grit sandpaper to the rest of my body. Afterward, my minder returned, I asked “now what?” he said “take a shower”.

他继续用砂纸磨砂我的身体。最终,他完成了治疗。我刚开始的服务员回来了,我问他:“现在做什么呢?“

他说:“洗澡。”

After my shower I again asked my minder “now what?” He said “that’s all.”

“Wait wait wait, what about the steam room” I asked.

“It’s broken he said”

我洗澡以后再问,“现在做什么呢?“

他说:“没有其他的。结束了。“

“等一下,“我说:“我要去这个蒸汽房间。“

他说:“坏了。“

Then he brought out two sealed robes, one red and one gold. I asked him “which one is better?”

He looked at both, considered it, then handed me the red one, I put on the red one and went out and up stairs

然后他带了两件长袍,一件金色一件红色。我问他:“哪一件好一些?“

他看了看, 想了想,然后给了我红色的。我就穿着红色出去了。

Sooooo, I went out the exit and upstairs where the men and women were all together.  Once I started seeing groups of women and groups of men sitting together it became very obvious to me that gold robes were for men and red robes for women. At that moment, I turn back for the locker room and my wife and her sisters are laughing and coming up the stairs with beauty masks on. They look so happy. My wife asks “how was the steam room?” I just ordered a beer.

我上了楼,楼上女人和男人都在一起放松。我马上发现了所有的男人都穿着色的长袍,所有的女人和我都穿着红色的长袍。 那一刻,我正想马上回更衣室换衣服,我的太太和她的姐妹来到楼上。她们笑着,贴着面膜,看起来很高兴。我太太问了我“蒸汽房怎么样?“

我就订了一瓶啤酒。

My first speech in Chinese

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I actually enjoy public speaking. Ever since my first speech class years ago, I have enjoyed mastering a topic or subject and speaking about it from my perspective. Well, this summer I was invited to give a brief talk ***in Chinese*** for the seventh grade class at our Chinese school in October. It was great practice for me to write and practice Chinese for this talk, and I actually got laughs from the one funny bit of my talk. Hopefully it helps the students see that with enough persistence anyone can learn to speak Chinese. I really enjoyed the opportunity and answering questions from the students.

The full talk as I wrote it is below.

大家好!我的名字是Scott Stanley. 你们可以叫我Scott。你们好。

我先想自我介绍。我是一个博士科学家,我在宝洁工作。你们知道宝洁是什么吗?(P&G)。我是一个科学家,我很喜欢科学,关于这个话题我总是可以跟你聊天儿。十年以前我结婚了。我的太太叫卉青。她是一个中国湖南人。我们有两个小孩,他们也学中文在我们的中文学校。第一个是我们儿子Andrew。Andrew七岁了。第二个是我们女儿Iris,她五岁了。她是一个小辣妹子。我们家还有我的岳母。

好。这是我的自我介绍。

今天我要分享三个话题:

1) 学中文不容易,

2) 我的经验学中文和说中文,

3)说中文给你什么好处。

1) 第一个话题,学中文不容易。

经常人们听我说中文的时候,他们不相信他们的耳朵,不相信一个老外人有中文在口里面。然后,他们问我:“你为什么会说中文?”我告诉他们我娶了一个湖南人,他们马上说:“啊 – – 当然,你的妻子教你中文!”

很多人觉得如果你和一个中国人结婚了,你自动会说中文。还有人觉得如果你的父母从中国来的,你自动会说中文。你们遇到过这种问题吗?我们都知道不是这样的。因为学中文真的不容易。其实,我的太太不教我中文。那么,为什么我要学中文?因为我们孩子们小时候,他们花了很多时间跟他们的外婆在一起。外婆只会说中文,所以我的孩子们开始说很多的中文。然后我很紧张 – – 我害怕我将来听不懂我的孩子们说话。所以我开始很努力地学中文。这是为什么我要学中文,但学中文不容易。

2)第二个话题,我学中文的经验。

我觉得最重要的事情是多开口说中文。例如,我记得,第二次我去中国,是和我的太太去她的老家结婚。当天有差不多两百多人来我们的婚礼。我站在台上,台下有所有的客人和家人。我想说一点的中文。所以我慢慢地说:“大家好。我是老婆。我爱我的老公。谢谢。”他们都觉得很好笑。以后,我用了很多不同的办法学中文。Rosetta Stone, Apps, 书,等等。我觉得对我最有帮助的是私教。过去三年,我每个星期用Skype跟一些老师学中文。我已经通过了HSK一,HSK二,HSK三。今年我开始写一个中文博客。我的博客是很简单的故事,目的是帮助我学中文。

总之,我用了很多办法学中文。最重要是每天说中文。

3) 第三个话题:说中文有什么好处。

我已经告诉了你们我工作在保洁。我的工作经常需要出差。我每年去亚洲一两次。我去过中国,日本,韩国,新加坡。我发现在这些国家我都可以用中文。其实在日本我听中文比日语多。因为现在中国有很多有钱人,他们经常出国,所以很多地方都会用中文。中国会越来越强大,越来越重要。会说中文很有用。

另外一个好处是,在美国你可以用中文说一些事情,然后别人听不懂。比如说:

“我想上厕所!”

“这个地方臭死了,马上要走!”

年惊人会说“你看,她很辣!”

今天我告诉了你们我的学中文经验。我希望你们觉得好玩,可能对你们学中文有一点点帮助。

谢谢。

Checklist for flying with small kids

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5-1-18

In our 50% Chinese 50% American household, we often travel with our young kids to China.  We have taken some long international flights, for example, getting back to my wife’s hometown can take 25-35 or more hours door to door.  Through these experiences we have learned a lot.  So, for this blog post, I wanted to write down some of the tips and tricks of travelling with small kids internationally.  These tips are focused on our own experience with kids that are 1 year up to about 6 years old.  We won’t cover the obvious (like requesting the bassinet for kids under two) and this article will probably change and evolve over time as we travel more and kids get bigger.

1. Food

Food is the first item because it is the most important one.  Every time the plane takes off or lands, the pressure change inside the plane causes kid’s ears to hurt.  However, if you just give them something to chew on or swallow, that allows kids to equalize the pressure in their ears, and makes their inner ear comfortable.  The ideal thing is something chewy they can eat a lot of that will not fill them up.  We find that Gerber puffs are excellent for this; the kids can eat a ton of them and never get full.  Beyond this, single serve snacks are great (whether you prepare them yourself in ziplocks or buy single serves).  The types of things we bring are: Cheerios, raisins, rice cakes, stuff like this.  Single serve is super convenient because you don’t have to worry about spilling and the unwrapping of each item is an activity for the kids.  We actually have a backpack that is almost totally filled with food for kids on these longs trips.

2. Toys 

We also bring a small number of cheap toys.  Because we bring cheap toys, we don’t mind if they get lost during the trip (which will invariably happen). For example: hot wheels cars, small puzzle, a small LEGO box set, all are good.  The dollar store is perfect for picking up small and disposable toys for taking on the plane.  If they get lost, no problem.

3. Pen & Paper

We have found that simple art supplies go a long way with children. For example, small stickers are cheap and light and will keep little finger busy for a long time peeling and sticking stickers onto paper.  For crayons, it’s worth it to find and buy these triangular cross section crayons as shown below.  They are super handy on the plane because they don’t roll!

4. Games

We don’t like electronic games and iPad for kids. Maybe I will write a separate post on this topic. A deck of mini uno cards can keep kids busy for a long time. Uno is also good because it doesn’t matter if you lose some cards here or there, and two, three, or more people can play together.  We also like to pickup game books that have coloring, tic-tac-toe, word search, connect the dots, and other games inside.

5. Inside the airport

During layovers, we try to find a children’s area if they have one nearby.  If not, an excellent toy to play in some open space is an inflatable beachball.  This packs flat, weighs nothing, and after blowing it up, you can play all sorts of games with it.  It’s been a super helpful on all of our layovers and delays.

6. Medicine

You can and probably should bring all types of medicines along for kids, especially when travelling abroad and not knowing what you will be able to get your hands on, what dosages, etc. For our kids, a key must have on the place is something for their nose like Vaseline.  Our kids both get nose bleeds, and the dry air on the plane really exacerbates it.  I can write a future story about this . .. but for now, I would just recommend bringing Vaseline or Ayer for the nose.

7. Other helpful items

There are tons of other little things we have found very helpful, for example: babywipes (out of diapers and still using these) and clean empty ziplock bags.  Ziplock bags are super helpful for when you kids takes two bites out of that apple and is full, you can just pop it in a bag and save it for later.

That’s it!  What types of tips do you have for travelling with kids?  Please let me know in the comments!

我们家是百分之五十中国百分之五十美国,所以我们经常跟孩子们去中国旅游。现在我们坐过了很多航班,包括很长的国际航班。例如,我们去了太太的老家,需要坐飞机差不多二十五到三十五个小时。通过这些经验我们学到了很多东西。今天的博客我想分享关于孩子们坐飞机的建议。

1)食品。食品是第一个因为食品是最重要的。每一次飞机起飞或者降落的时候,压力变化让孩子的耳朵痛了。如果给孩子们吃喝东西,可以降低对孩子耳朵的压力。让他们耳朵舒服。大多他们需要一些东西咀嚼和吞咽。我们发现小宝贝的饼干是最好的。Gerber的泡芙饼干是我们最喜欢的,因为很好吃,吃很多也不会吃地很饱。我们也带很多小吃。我们觉得分开装很方便,可能买或者自己准备:葡萄干,Cheerios, 米饭糕,等等 … 所有的小吃多很好吃。我们准备好的小吃放在食品背包里面。

2)玩具。我们也带一些便宜的玩具。因为带便宜的玩具,所以我们不担心玩具弄丢。例如: 小车,小拼图,小乐高积木(LEGO)盒子,都可以。你可以在两元店买很多便宜的玩具带到飞机上。如果玩具弄丢了没关系。

3)笔和纸。我们发现简单的美术用品对孩子很有用。例如,带一些之,很多小贴纸很便宜也很轻。很多小贴纸他们会一直玩让他们很忙。关于蜡笔应该买三角尖头蜡笔,下面给你看一个照片。它们最好因为它们不会到处滚来滚去。买它们很值得。

4)游戏。我们不喜欢给孩子们玩太多手机游戏,因为手机游戏创造出很多问题。关于孩子玩手机的问题我可以写其他的博客。我们喜欢玩卡片的游戏。UNO是一个很好的很好的卡片的游戏,因为可能丢了一个两个卡片没关系还可以玩。这个游戏两个三个后者四个人以上都可以一起玩。我们也带游戏书。这本书里面每一页有一些游戏,例如:三子棋,找不同,看图连点,等等。

5)在飞机场里面。我们觉得第最重要的玩具是一个小充气沙滩球。你有中途期间,在等下一个航班的期间,你可以打开你的背包,用嘴巴吹球,跟孩子们玩球。

6)药.  你可能带很多种孩子需要用的药。对我们孩子们最重要的是凡士林(Vaseline)。在飞机上空气很干。我们的孩子们经常鼻子出血,所以我们总是带一些凡士林(Vaseline)放在鼻子里面,保护他们的鼻子别太干了。

7) 其他物品。例如:婴儿湿巾, 纸巾, 自封袋,都很方便。我们孩子们吃一般的苹果吃饱了,我们会放在自封袋里,等一会儿孩子饿了想吃了。可以从自封袋里拿出来给他们继续吃。这样可以别浪费食物。

好了。你喜欢带什么东西跟孩子们去旅游?请告诉我。

Hold it right there!

Blog 17

4-30-18

I have always wanted to be a dad and have kids to raise. I can remember even as a small child planning things I would do with my own children. I guess I just like to plan ahead!

我一直想当爸爸,抚养自己的孩子们。我还记得在我很小的时候我就打算以后怎么和孩子们相处。我想我只是喜欢提前计划(未雨绸缪)。

However, some things you cannot plan for. For example I never planned for the situation I had last week with my six year old son. You see, normally, my wife takes the kids to school in the morning and I pickup in the afternoon. My wife had some work training, and so I was taking kids to school all week.

但是有一些事情计划不了。例如我从没有计划过上个星期和我六岁的儿子在一起的情形。通常,我妻子早上送孩子们去学校,我下午接他们回家。这个星期每一个早上我太太都有一些工作培训,所以这个星期我每天都要送孩子们去学校。

Monday, it was a bit crazy, and everyone was late. Tuesday was a little better, but I was still late getting to work. Wednesday the same. By Thursday morning, I am pretty frustrated.

星期一有一点混乱,我和孩子们都迟到了。星期二,好一点,但我还是上班迟到了。星期三是一样的乱。到了星期四的早上,我已经很沮丧。

It is a situation any parent can identify with. I was pointing my finger at my kids and saying “you guys had better eat and I don’t want to be late to work again!” In that moment, I was frustrated and my tone of voice was not good. I had had enough.

这个情况所有的父母都可以理解。我指着我的孩子说:“你们最好吃早饭,你们不要再让我迟到了!“ 在那时候,我很沮丧,语气也不好。我受够了。

Suddenly, my six year old holds up hand. He looked me right in the eyes and with a calm voice said “Hold it right there Dad. What is more important to you…” then he held out his two little hands, palms up, like a scale.

突然我的六岁儿子举起手来。他直视我的眼睛冷静地说:“爸爸等一下。什么对你更重要…”

然后他伸出两只小手像天平一样举了起来。

He then said “What is more important to you Dad, being late to work … or … having a family where everyone loves you?”

Whoa!!!

他然后说:“爸爸,哪一个是更重要,上班迟到…或者…有家人都爱你?“

哇啊啊啊!

This is either the most clever or the sweetest kid ever (maybe both). In all my planning, I never imagined such delightful children.

这是最聪明或最贴心的孩子(也许都是)。在我以前的计划里,我从来没有计划过这么好的孩子。